First Queer Prom Comes to Missoula

Last summer, Kelsey Tha watched communities in Hamilton and Florence reject a rainbow crosswalk and try to disband Florence’s Gay Straight Alliance, and she knew she had to do something.

So Kelsey, a mom of two, from Hamilton, began putting the pieces together for Queer Prom, an inclusive night of dancing and celebration where attendees are encouraged to be their authentic selves. She empathized with LGBTQ+ teens who were hurt by these events and knew as an ally she could provide hope.

“It broke my heart to see the aggressive hatred and animosity toward children for just trying to exist,” Kelsey, of Hamilton, said. “I know the depression and suicide rate in Montana is high, and I know mental healthcare is severely lacking. Prom gives teens something to look forward to and lets them know we are happy they are here, happy they are alive, and we want them to succeed.”

Friday, April 22 is for adults and is open to anyone on the LGBTQ+ spectrum and any ally. Saturday, April 23 is for teens. It will take place at the Missoula County Fairgrounds Commercial Building from 7-10 p.m.

Kelsey quickly partnered with like-minded community members and Western Montana LGBTQ+ Community Center (known as The Center). Businesses stepped forward to provide DJ services, raffle items, monetary donations and even clothes. The dress code is simply “wear whatever makes you feel confident!” Lady Baltimore, a fashion outfitter with the tagline, “You are a work of art. Dress accordingly,” is offering to help design a look for prom to any teen who needs it for free. 

Prom will also feature a photobooth, snacks and drinks, and of course dancing! Legacy Lounge, a teen dance club and hang out located on Missoula’s Hip Strip, will be spinning beats. With raffle items from retailers across Western Montana, organizers hope to raise money for The Center and future events.

Organizers are still looking for donations. To register, visit eventbrite.co.uk/e/queer-prom-2022-tickets-269953216337 or email queerprommt@gmail.com. Attendees must register in order to be admitted.

Learn more:

Donate to The Center at gaymontana.org/donate (put Queer Prom)

On Facebook: facebook.com/wgmlcc

On Instagram: @lgbtmontana